If the Christian church is into keeping secrets, then the women at the NW Emerging Women’s Leadership Conference, Convergence let a cat out of the bag in a big way at the end of January. I have written about this conference already within the contents of this blog and it is not my intent to belabor the point however, I find myself unable to leave that weekend. I had an epiphany as I was driving home from the chiropractor this last week. I tend to have lucid moments as I stave off migraines.
As my mind was dodging all over the place trying to occupy itself so that it was not focusing on the pain of the headache, suddenly the lucidity came. It occurred to me that during the weekend at Convergence the women had inadvently revealed the secret to discipleship and transforming a life for Christ. (Shhh! Don’t tell anyone.)
A couple of years ago, I had read an interesting book by Alice P. Mathews entitled Preaching That Speaks to Women. Please understand that I am oversimplifying one of the premises in the book but simply stated the science in the book showed that women learn best by a combination of teaching that speaks to their life and relationship with other women. Probably the word most often used for relationship is mentoring but that word is so often misconstrued that I don’t like to use it. The way that it was described in Mathews book was women modeling what it was like to be women in real and genuine situations in life and that can only be done if you are involved in relationship with those women.
This relationship involves a sharing of life experience. A vulnerability and an honesty to share when we haven’t always handled things correctly or that we aren’t handling things correctly right now and just don’t care that we aren’t. To say that we are fed up with the status quo and just plain angry or moved to tears because we can’t handle the sadness anymore. This relationship means rejoicing when another woman pushes through and gains victory over her circumstances and then coming to terms with our own jealousy because it isn’t us.
What I experienced at Convergence was this very thing. It was a place of being who you were at the moment and a challenge to move beyond it by sisters who knew the pain and who cared enough to look you in the eye and encourage you to push on to reach your potential.
The secret they revealed was that teaching Scripture is not enough. Being a friend is not enough. You would think that as a church we would know this, but we don’t. The combination of relevant teaching and relationship that comes from shared experience is however transformational and it is this combination that will set the world on fire for Christ.
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